Thursday, July 10, 2014

adult talk

What is adult talk?



If you have never heard the saying slathered is ADULT TALK going on atop lying to yourself.  Every child has heard it when their parent is hiding something.


Is there even such thing as adult talk because sooner or later the kid is going to find out. This is even about kids under 12 years old. This is about how us teens know when our parents are hiding things from us they don't want us to hear. So why not spit out what you have to say in front of them.


Why do parents make it so noticeable to kids that they are hiding something. Parents always claim they have no business when their kids or teens are around. But in all honesty the parent put a their information out there by either talking loud or talking about right in your face when they think you're not listening.


Parents do not have to make it obvious they are hiding.something from the kid. They don't have to sit and say,"oh we're about to talk about grown up stuff so you need to leave"

If you and the kid are already in a bad place they are gonna think that you are talking about them.

Parents shouldn't make their.kids feel like that because it makes the child feel neglected. Parents wonder expect their child to tell them EVERY single thing that is going on in that child's life but why?

Parents hide things from their kids all the time and expect their child to be completely honest with them.

If you're a parent reading this you know this is true. When you make a child or your child feel neglected by sending them away you have hurt the child's feelings.

Parents always sit and say that they were just like but if they did they wouldn't hide things from their kids no matter how it was.

Like the sex life. Parents sit and get divorced and are always afraid to tell the kid that there is another person in their life. When the kid finds out without their parents telling them it makes the child act like a totally different person.

When a child knows their parent is hiding something from them they do the same because the parent is showing them that it is alright to hide things. Granted the fact that it could be something important. The kid isn't going to say anything.

Now parents always say it's in the best interest of the child if they don't know something specific but for all the kid knows it could have something to do with them.

That's why kids have trust issues. Because parents basically show their child that you can't trust anyone not even the people that raised you.

Kids learn everything from their parents and friends but their parents have a bigger impact than the friends do.

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