step parents

Step parents can be the moat cruelest people in the world. Take it from the master (me.)

My friend tells me all the time all about her problems with her stepmom:

Friend's point of view:

I have a stepmother that I absolutely do not like. It's like she goes out of her way to make it known that she down at like me either.

We don't get along because honestly I think she's jealous. Jealous of my little sister and i. We were the first in my dad's life other than his mom and my mom but you see the point. I think it's all because she knows my father would pick is over her.

I mean who wouldn't chose their biological kids over someone they married and still probably doesn't know everything about.

But anyways she's malefficent. She treats people unfairly and acts like it's nothing wrong with it. Like really can you not.

The other day she admitted she didn't like me and ever since then I haven't talked to her. A few days later she starts talking to me like everything is okay and she never said she didn't like me.

I don't like that she did that. I have one less problem without her and I'm gonna keep it that way.

I don't have time in my life to sit and stress about people that don't like me and also don't trust me.

I mean I don't even do that to people my own age. If I don't associate with people my own age when I know they don't like me what makes you any difference?

Just because you're an adult?

Oh no.

I treat everyone the same. I will sit and listen to you and respect you bit.not waste my time with you.

I am tired of being treated like dirt it really isn't called for. I have tried to sit and tell my dad but it's like she has him under a spell. He only.listens to some of it.

She makes me seem like th as bad guy to everyone she sits and talks to. It's not fair mistakes me mad because when I go around them they only see her point of the situation they don't ask about mine which makes it worse. So I'm being judged by other people that has no reason being in the house's business all because she doesn't like me.I'm tired of it.

My point of view:

Step parents bring nothing but drama with them. They do whatever they can to make your life miserably but you have to realize they're not worth it. You have to sit and think about the positive out comes that comes with it.

Like for instance when you turn eighteen you can hurry and get the neck out of the place. When you have kids your step parent doesn't have to see them.

 For someone I know that's what she's  doing. As long as her step mom is with her father she will not be able to see my friend's grandkids
 She used to say that he won't see them either but her dad does everything in his will to make sure her little sister and her are okay.

It's not fair to take out something on your biological parent just because your step parent is being rude and mean.

It's not fair. So just keep reminding yourself: the step parent isn't the one taking care of you. It's your real father/mother.

Try talking to your biological parent more and if the still don't believe you then record them with a voice recorder. When you have evidence that your step parent is being mean towards you it takes your biological parent understand you're being mistreated and will most likely do something about it.

Just because your step parent is treating you wrongly doesn't mean you have to give up.